Thank you for your thoughts. By Crossroads I meant either staying in my job in my current location or going on my road trip adventure and moving to the South Island, starting afresh. That is the decision I had to make, not whether I want to file for d or not.
I have no intention to file, h started this and I want him to be the one that finishes it, if he ever wants a d then I wont stand in his way though. Like you d wont benefit me, I won't get anything financial from him, we don't have young children and I don't have anyone else in my life that I need to be legally single for.
