waw maybe #2

[bhappy2]

Ok I need some help and quick, so I was served today and I didnt tell anyone except on here. I went about my business and waited for the W to come home. She came home and I asked if she wanted to talk she said sure, I said how do you want to handle telling the kids and our families. She said that she didnt want anyone to know anything including the kids. I said wait! what? she said that she didnt want to upset D18 before she goes back to school...

I said thats not fair to our children that you do not want to tell them until the D is finalized, what if we have to sell the house and they need to get apartments. She said that we do not know how things are going to work out so why would we tell them anything. I said because if we tell them now they can arrange for housing if needed. If I was to buy her out it would cost me a fortune as the house has gone up substantially since we bought it in 94.

She also became infuriated that she doesnt want anyone in her family to know until its over and that I have no right to tell anyone in her family. I said that your family is as close to me as my own and that they should know and you should explain that its you that want the D and that you do not even want to try just a little. My MIL thinks the world of me and will absolutely be angry with my W, so much so that she will prob have to go to the hospital. My BIL feels the same way and thinks I am the best thing that has ever happened to his S my W.

She wants me to stay in the house for 5 years and then sell and split the proceeds, LOL... really like how warped are you. I just told her tonight that I will not buy her out... she said ok then she will get a second job and buy me out... I said great that works. It cost between 4K and 5K a month to run this house. I mean how deranged do these woman get.

I asked her some questions saying the following, W You wanted a D in June why did you wait until now to file? She said because you told me not to. REALLY!!! I said from this point on do not use my account to pay your cell phone bill she starts getting upset.. I said this is what you want so we will go full steam ahead. She is tearing up the whols time.

We have a huge party (her side) in two weeks, she doesnt want the host (W's S) of this party to know that D has been filed. She is asking me to please not tell her. Bizarro world finally is here... 300 people will be there and she want everyone to think nothing is wrong.

My goodness I feel such a relief, no kidding I want to get this over. I talked to my attorney and she said she could make it go as fast as I want.

I have to get some sleep I was inivited to a party tomorrow... Cheers!