Lou, don’t feel bad about being at “cross roads” and not making “that” decision. I’ve been at this for more than 5 years, and I still have not made a “decision”. Neither did H… Not saying that this is the right thing to do. It would probably be better for me, if I made a “decision” already… I don’t think in your case you need to rush with the decision anyway. I might be wrong here… My situation is not holding any merit, LOL. Making a “final decision” for me would not give me any more benefits than I already have, except in case I want to marry a new, wealthy guy .
It seems like your sons are coming along pretty well, settling with their lives and also valuing their mother. I know that my son has my back and will be there for me. I can tell that your boys are heading this direction too!
Your H is a fool, and he will realize it sooner or later. I love it that you are moving in the direction you fancy at the time!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
