Contact from the dark side.

[peacetoday]

Many people live in denial
an alcoholic will believe they don't drink that much and they really believe it
a smoker believes the cigarettes won't really harm them

MLC er's all seem to have this in common
they lie and they believe their lies
It gets them through

My XH once looked me straight in the eye and said you wanted this D
like it was a mutual thing
he lied about his A until he got caught
he lied about his drug usage even while attending AA meetings
once in MLC he really lied about everything

its good you can see your wife for who she is
hopefully your friend will see his Mlcer also