Understand most the guys on this forum past present and future are chronic 'fixers'. Myself included... we think we can fix the MLCr, the M, and the relationships they have with the mailman with the hidden agenda and covert contracts tucked in a hidden pocket as we try to be the Knight in shining armor to save the day.
As everyone has suggested ... not your circus, not your monkeys. I think Irish has been the best role model in how to do this. He has elegantly danced through that part of it with his ex, not interfering in the girls relationship with their mother but also not enabling either.
