Yes, I have taken that approach to thank her whenever I see an opportunity to, but trying to not overdo it so that it seems like I don't mean it. I have noticed that she has thanked me more when I do things for her now.


M: 42
W: 39
Married: 13 Together: 18
Kids:10,8
BD 1: 2/2013
Reconciled: 9/2013
BD 2: 10/2017
Separation from MH: 12/2017