Hey doodler and neffer, thanks so much for checking in.
WH and I did mediation at the start. It didn't really work for us. I would state my case, WH would look upset and agree to whatever I said or keep quiet, the mediator would write it all up, and then he would want to change things later down the line between us and not involve the mediator for cost reasons. For the last few months it's been our lawyers talking. There hasn't been much they've discussed because everything has ticked along - WH pays what the law says he should and he gets DS for the time the law says he should.
Neffer - your insight as a former WH is invaluable and powerful. Thank you.
