Books that I have read and gotten value out of since bomb drop
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing - Susan Anderson (huge!) The Dance of Anger - Harriet Lerner The Dance of Intimacy - Harriet Lerner (sort of the same but also useful) It Takes one to Tango - wilfried riley how to improve your marriage without talking about it - Patricia Love The Science of Happiness - Stefan Klein Facing Love Addiction - Giving yourself the power to change the way you love by Pia Mellody (knocked me off my feet, wanted to slam it shut and never look at it again, who is inside my head so I read it three times in a row)
BD#1: "marriage is over" 9/14/2016 H in basement 24/7 with EX/OM BD#2: 3/20/2017 I plan to move out "soon" I LRT me: 42, H, 41, EX/OM, 37 D 10, Son 7 M to H = 20 years EX/OM moved in 10 years ago
