AS:
I am pretty certain that her agenda is based upon her forcing me out of the house. As far as D goes, we all know that eventually, no matter what, a D will happen. It will. This is her controlling me and trying to get me to move out. Which is messed up since she is the one who should go, by all accounts.

V:
I am very sorry you're still dealing with that. That is a long time for a WS to hold a grudge. I think that eventually my WW will run out of energy to fight me. I think that a lot of her aggression and tactics are to push me out of the house, because I remind her of what she has done and is continuing to do to our family. She has tried to shut me off from S14, but she will make "parenting" gestures towards my S16. The mind games V. The mind games! Why!? Frustrating.

Nicole:
You are right, it [censored] that your husband is not there. But, he isn't there. Not that this makes you feel better, but it could be worse. He could be there every day making your life stressful, like my WS is every day. You need support. Find a divorce support group at a local church. Attend and meet people who understand you. It will be good just to talk about stuff. That's also GAL and making yourself better. We have to heal to move on. And we have to move on to feel alive again.


Save yourself. Nobody is coming!
BD:11/2017
Filed:12/2017
Final: 2/2018