I don't think stander is used much on this board.

I would think a ring in this situation (especially being off for 6 months) is very anti-DB. What better advert could you give for, hey hon, go play as much and as long as you want because your little wifey is waiting right here where you left her.

At the end of the day, as in all things, do what feels organic to you and don't force it one way or the other.