Thanks Vanilla. It's just... it's not something I need to deal with just yet. I have so much more on my plate right now, and digging into it would just add to the pile of junk I have to eat my way through. laugh I'm trying to process it so it doesn't come up with the WaW, but not really worry about it long term. And it's not something she doesn't know about, but it's something I don't want in the conversation right now. It would not be productive.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18