Contact from the dark side.

[Irish M]

yes script.... it's scary but at the same time if you read the script before it happens seems almost comical. Like them learning their lines and presenting them to us the spectator. Only I won't be handing out any best actress awards any time soon to my XW.

Well by buddy who's own wife is deep in her own MLC. They have separated and he has his own place now.. He found peace but is finding it hard to disconnect. Watching her Facebook, driving by the house, asking anyone associated with her about her. She still throws him some bait when she feels him pulling away. Thank god he has no kids with her. He is deeply in love and still wearing the rose colored glasses. Time will fix that.

Well she, we will call her Sandy. Sandy and my buddy along with my XW and me would go out nights.. dinner.. drinks etc. It all went south when my XW hit her MLC. she deleted us all . Facebook etc.

a few months ago my buddy's wife Sandy has her own MLC. Affair, long distance soul mate, gambling, drugs, Botox, search for youth, spending all her money etc..

I keep my distance and try to help my buddy. In the meantime my XW adds Sandy as Facebook friend. I see this as a pop up .. Sandy is now friends with XW. I immediately delete Sandy because it was about the same time my XW said someone was feeding her info about me via FB.

time goes by.

Last week, my buddy says to me.
Sandy asked me why you weren't friends with her anymore on FB. ( she just realized so not that close a friend lol.)

My buddy says he told her that since she disrespected him I deleted her out of respect to him. And that because she added my XW, i wanted nothing to do with her.(true)

Then he goes on to say she was shocked. That since me and my XW are so close and friendly these days I shouldn't be upset. He asks her to clarify and told her that she still doesn't see the girls.

She tells him that... my XW said recently that me and my XW co-parent amazingly. That she sees the kids very often. That all the drama is behind us and all is good. happy happy.

If that was her wish and dream .. I wish for the same but we are far from that. I can't believe she continues to lie about her relationship with the kids. I really think she believes it too.

When I went for coffee months ago, she did tell me she was exhausted about making up reasons why she doesn't see the kids. So I guess she decided to just say she sees them. I wish she would send me some pictures of their outings. I'm curious where she takes them.

Her birthday coming up.. You never know, maybe she will wish to see them when blowing out the candles and a miracle will happen .

cheers everyone.
Irish