I've been wondering something and I'm sure I will find some opinions, thoughts, etc from this wonderful group of people.
It's the wedding rings. Wear them or don't wear them? Simple enough question. I haven't been wearing mine since BD actually but recently read something that makes me wonder if this is the right thing.
A wedding ring is a symbol that says 'unavailable' without saying a word. Handy if you're a Stander.
Another article suggests that even though the MLCer or WAS is saying 'no way, not coming back, get a divorce, etc etc' that they were secretly (unconsciously?) pleased their spouse kept wearing the ring.
As a Stander, it's making me think. So far, I'm torn. It's been 6 months not wearing the ring and now if I put it on, what does that say to my H? It could go either way I'm thinking - good or bad depending on where he is in the crisis. Mine - still very deep in Replay.
