I went through this Joe, and after I left it got worse...........
It's control tactics.
In the end I moved back in and went 'whatever'. WH got fed up, said he was leaving and I called his bluff.
He left and I put his stuff in storage. The raging continues to this day. Nothing I can do to stop it.
That's the way it is with these entitled waywards.
I am so sorry you have this too. Leaving or being apart doesn't actual make it easier. In fact it makes it harder to track. Yes I used headphones and during peak rage times I dodged.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW