Thanks so much for your post it really changed my mood.

With self-reflection I was referring to the first e-mail she sent on Monday which contained a bit of guilt. Because her parents have ring fenced her it is interesting that she has now reached out precisely when they are away.

The one-liner I received in return of my warm-hearted reply has triggered a lot of anger inside me. I just can't believe how anybody could be so disrespectful towards 6 years of loyal commitment. But you are right, this is the mind of a WAW we are talking about.

We are 6 months into the separation right now, I presume it will be another 6 months before any form of reflection takes place.
This is why it's good that legislation here requires 2 years of separation before D can be filed, because it may just be the time frame it takes for her to come back to reality.


Truthbuster.

Married 4.5, Together 6
M: 36, W: 33, no kids
Separation date: 7/8/2017
Bomb dropped: 8/18/2017
Last communication: 1/8/2018 - now nothing
OM confirmed - now ended (?)