Thanks LH for the redirect. Yes, JRUSS's post is words to live by. My colleague is keen to set me up with a friend of hers for a date - I told her now is not the right time. But, she showed me a pic of her and I am looking forward to spending some time with other women with my full mojo back. There is an ocean out there and for men like us who have worked their a$$es off to be better human beings, we will attract great people who will want to be with us, whether as friends or romantic partners.
LH - what you wrote there just hit me super hard: "never will I convince someone to be with me". I am going to live by that motto.
