Doodler: I have the exact same thoughts. Even something familiar and stability for the kids and as a bonus GAL activity. And I wouldn't have to ask W for opinions what she thinks about my ideas. But that's in the hands of my in-laws now...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.