Really sorry Cnut, D certainly isn't fun. But it may or may not be the end of your R with your XW, you just never know what the future holds. I have a friend that recently remarried his XW after 5 years and another that was for all intents and purposes D'd even though they never filed, and recently reconciled after 2 years of zero contact. Regardless, I'm confident your future holds awesome things for you
