Thank you for your heartfelt post and concern. I have thiught a ton about what you wrote and here’s my situation. Stbx was a SAHM and a model w and mother for most of our R. Yes, over the past few years, she has become a different person—in her own words, she has finally put herself first. While I wholly disagree with her decision to seek D and R outside of the M, I don’t think she is a danger to the children. My L believes I am getting much more custody in this negotiated settlement than I would if we went to court so it is in my best interest she sign what we have agreed to. So unless ownit’s prediction comes true...and she has no intention to sign ever...I am at peace with the current custody agreement. My older kids all text me all the time. The younger kids I will either take to school or put them to bed. I am determined not to abandon them, no matter what stbx decides. Despite the situation, we have for the most part been trying to co parent amicably and as well as possible.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
