FC, sorry to hear she filed but often things have to go that far or beyond before things start to get better.
Regarding your earlier question about DB'ing while under the same roof, it's really, really difficult. Many here have tried but I can count the successful in-house recons on one hand I think. Separation really helps with DB'ing. I'm not encouraging anyone out there to separate if they can help it, it can be pretty traumatic for the LBS (at least at first). But if separation is in the cards then it's not necessarily a bad thing from a DB'ing perspective and may be a good thing.
