I want to wait to tell the kids because s14 has exams for high school. They matter and his classes are the real deal at a serious high school.
He has the apartment but I assume no bed yet.
He is all over this. And I am working between stalling for son and a maniac. I will call s14's school and delay exams if he bombs him inappropriately.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced