Please can you reread DB and DR. Get Sandi guidance (37) print them off and carry them with you.
The whole purpose of this is so that you make yourself the focus, your growth, your health, your GAL, your detachment.
Everything you do is about you making yourself visible as the wonderful human being, husband and father you are.
Currently you look at everything through how it affects WW and whether it brings her closer or towards OM. If it wasn't this OM then it would be a different one.
Detachment means fine if your R, fine if you don't. DB is strong because you become a winner either way. You connect with yourself, your children (both) and the world in the best way you can.
Currently you are like a water skier being pulled by WW power boat. That power boat is out of control and you are hanging on for dear life. That power boat is one minute heading for the rocks, the next the shore, the next out to sea. Soon it will crash......
It is much stronger to be you, to be the lighthouse. To be not driven around or dragged around emotionally. My view is that by leaving you are getting peace although WW has control. And naturally you can have control of yourself.
Your WW may leave OM1 for OM2 or OM3.
Detach Joe, let go of the rope that ties you to WW speedboat.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
