Just want to say that although you did not choose this you have a lot of say in how you respond to all the variables. Take your time and think about things. I know how the pressure builds with the live-in. But you can detach from this and make decisions at calm moments.
And I ditto that the way you have stood is so admirable. You are a top notch fella, like so many of the men who stand here.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
