Andrew I think it an excellent idea to involve the kids in the new place if you can. They may not be enthusiastic about it but just asking is key as it gives them a feeling of control in a situation where they have none.

xoxoxo

Gordie, she's a fool.Just thought you may need to hear that from another female. I bet all of us women herenwould have been thrilled if our spouses made a 10th of the effort you've made to save your marriage.

Her loss. Your gain.
xxoxooxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver