In my sitch, OM is practically living where I moved out 6 months ago. Life's not fair. I get that. But then again, life is not good or bad - life just is. It depends on the person how they see and build their own life regardless of what they have experienced before. Making yourself a victim is not going to help it. Your kids will always be yours, no matter who they are living with. This can't be taken from you. Be the best dad for them and they do, and will, love you forever. If I could get over the worst phase, you can too. Allow yourself to have time to experience the feelings and the grieving. This process is a marathon regardless of the outcome. Baby steps. You will be fine.
Oh, I do not know what would I do in this situation.
Thanks for helping me. It is my 2nd month and I am still not where I would like to be. Worst part is I am struggling to have a clear plan to execute. I find that my mind is seeking some solutions, or after the last discussion with my W, ways out for myself. I get an idea, like going back home, and forcing my wife out, but then I changed my mind (for good). Normally I am a person that takes immediate decisions. But in this situation I still do not have a plan, and probably that is why it is so frustrating. Also, unfortunately, I still love her as well.
