She would confront me and cause a scene. I not sure how that is appropriate for the environment. Maybe it would be better to address it in private? I also do not want her to know that it annoys me because that is pursuit: choose me over him.
If I were in that situation, she'd not only know it annoys me, she'd know that if she did it again she'd get a tiny clue of what h3ll will be like when she eventually gets there. I can assure you, it wouldn't be mistaken for pursuit.
