Glad you can see the advise for what it is. Harsh and to the point, but the main focus is to help you.
We are team MAV82 here and we are here to advise you were possible.
One thing no one can offer is a magic wand to change things.
Bizarrely enough, when you stop focusing on what you 'think' you need, and start putting your time and effort into what you know deep down you have to do.. the things that you 'thought' you needed will come to you without you even chasing it. Or you will release you never actually wanted it in the first place.