I agree w/bttrfly on the photos. Walk around the house and make a list of the things that you would like to take to your new place. Right now, you are not thinking about the material things, but you will regret not taking them later on and she may very well turn nasty and not allow you to have them later on. Right now, she's in the mood to do anything you want if she thinks she can win you back into the game, so ask for them and get it in writing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
