Haven’t been on in a while. Things have just gone from bad to worse. She had me arrested back in November as I was outside the house asking why she had him around the kids. She lied and thankfully my kids told the truth to the police so they let me go after 24 hours. This has caused a lot of problems for her now as the child care regulators are inspecting her and social services.
We have very little contact, I’ve seen her briefly two times. One was when she threw my son out the house and said she doesn’t want him to his face, the other was Xmas day, I said she could collect them at 3pm, she threw him out by 9pm. I let her try again Boxing Day, he ran away 3 hours later. She had the AP and his kids there unwrapping presents. She couldn’t even give them Xmas day with their mum.
Things have calmed down now, and hes settling in a bit better with her. The issue is the AP practically lives there. My daughter is struggling real bad emotionally, but she’s fine when she’s with me.
It was her 10th birthday yesterday so she had them overnight from 7pm, did she spend time with her daughter, nope took them to watch dog racing with him and his kids.
We start mediation soon, she initially didnt respond in time so I went via my L, she then responded so it should start soon. Ive told her the house is mine, and i’ll be giving her notice.
I am struggling more and more as each day passes. It’s all I think about 24/7, the hurt for me and my children eats me up inside. I just don’t know what to do anymore.
