FastCars, it's more than that. It's letting her experience the consequences of her actions, yes, but it's also me gaining some distance, and no longer going out of my way to help her.
I'm not proud of it, but there's also some satisfaction in having someone who's treated me so badly being awash in her own garbage. I'm not sure where that fits into DBing.
On another note, I'm just about to refi the house and take her name off it. She has to sign the paperwork, so she's well aware of what's going on. I kind of feel like some of the things she's been doing lately is temp checking, so this might be a good indication of whether that's true.
I am pretty sure that's wishful thinking on my part, so my expectations are very low. The things I refer to as temp checking are also part of divorcing, so, like I said, my expectations are low.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
