I don't really have any advice. I did pretty much the same thing as you're doing. It got easier once she moved out.

The one thing I can think of is that I started a text thread with just my kids and me, so the three of us can coordinate and communicate.

There are bound to be things that fall through the cracks, though, because you and your W aren't communicating very much. Do what you can to eliminate them, but don't beat yourself up over the things that get forgotten.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17