Gordie #15: closing the cake shop

[Gordie]

Vapo, andrew, ownit, butterfly, ginger, neutral, and especially Cali,

Thanks for sticking with me in these dark days. No new epistles! It feels like we are at the end of the distance pursuit dance...when both partners distance from each other.

Cali’s comments about his w only being able to work on m or herself but not both. Wow, that’s some hard earned wisdom.

Andrew—can’t believe you called me a walk away, but yeah...it feels like that to me too, if I am honest with myself. These days I don’t even want to be in the same room as her.

Ginger—remember when I got here and my stbx said let’s do open m...and I was in such a LBS fog I actually considered it. Thank God I’m no longer in that fog.

Butterfly—move out date is a few weeks away. I don’t really need to pack as I’m not taking any stuff except my clothes and personal affects. Stuff is not important to me and most in the house is hers. I want to start fresh, including new furnishings of my own choosing.