I went to Retrouvialle and my experience was rare in that it was a disaster. My problem is WH was not really engaged to save our marriage and refused to participate half way through. We almost left early but one of the host pairs convinced us to stay. WH refused to do the follow up appointments (6 Sundays of more workshops) and I attended half of them alone (it was humiliating though the other couples praised me for my determination) and felt it would have been great if WH would have just done the work. If you and your wife are getting better then I would hold off for a bit. Keep doing what works!
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3