Husband gone for the second time - 2

[PsySara]

I was thinking of some sort of substance abuse as well. The incredible mood swings, the refusal to financially support you guys, blocking you from the house all points to something. I will be honest, I really thought WH was abusing something when he was in his Affair, I sometimes wished I could have chalked it up to that. In the end he was making those horrible choices stone cold sober. When will you know if you need surgery?