Thank you for the timely advice H and A.

I am not OK with how she approached it no. I do have a question in regards to the future if she wants to file.

If we do get the D, it will be a dissolution (not a divorce); this will be easier because we have currently very few assets (almost none) together, and it will save on court/attorney fees. The dissolution is basically a no fault agreement where both parties sign papers and get them notarized and then have a brief hearing. If and/or when she approaches me telling me she wants to divorce me...am I supposed to NOT sign these papers? I mean, we all know "we" the LBS is "not to stand in the way of WS filing". So if they want to, they should. But a divorce is different, bc one person files and the other is served. With the dissolution, she already filled out the paperwork and I just have to sign it. Do I refuse to sign it, and then it gets ugly and she must file for divorce? --I do not want to spend time and money on that......thoughts here?


M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
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Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1