I was trying so hard to save a marriage that W had no interest in. I was out of control. Its only in the last month that I've stepped away. Its made a big difference to my mental well being. I'm not as obsessed with W and just concerned with me and the girls. I've also accepted her affair and that D is more than likely to happen. I couldn't even conceive of that 2 months ago.
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019
