Husband gone for the second time - 2

[Cherry]

Oh honey. Your h sounds like he was snatched by the same gremlin that took mine and maybe many others. He too was as far away from this type of man as possible, and he detested anybody like that. He also, like yours is cheery and upbeat with others but i am treated like the enemy. Maybe we just remind them of their own guilt too much that they can’t stand it and don’t know how to behave us.

You saying about having frequent moments of not being able to take any more is totally normal at the beginning, slowly, although the pain might still be there, it no longer impacts your mood or the day so much. I’m like caz, I frequently dance around with the kids. Might kids are part Asian and part Latin so music is a big thing in both cultures. Things like taking a walk and breathing in that fresh air are so good for you. You might initially feel like it’s hard work to get out, but once you do it’s guaranteed to boost your mood. Really take in your surroundings too, distract your mind. Is there any groups you can take your daughter to? Any stay and play? Seeing your daughter laugh is the best medicine.

You’re being so strong, you’re doing great and we are all here for you