The gaslight info has begun. Today an angry spew email telling me that he and his lawyer believe I am being hostile as h has now learned that I requested copies of tax returns.
He tells me either I have to make a decision or this will be hostile. And either I am doing this with him or against him by 9PM tonight or I won't exist to him after tonight.
Any suggestions on how to phrase it that I am having a lawyer look at this? I think Gordie mentioned saying this is a significant decision and I need to review everything. I am worried that h will take this as hostile as he is so angry right now.
I want to try a very innocent approach and see is that calms him down. He wants to do this all on our own. How do I tell him I am having a lawyer look it over. He is going to freak. He is so irrational. He thinks I shouldn't contact a lawyer.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
