In September 2017 after the BD when I met up with SDiL I repeated my question. His response: "I told you last year it would cause problems.". I said "I don't see why?". He started laughing and said "You don't see why??".
When he started laughing and said, "You don't see why", was it in a snarky way? Was it as if he thought you were joking? Did he act as if he assumed you surely knew?
How was their attitude toward you when you were unemployed?
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She is showing a lot of remorse and compassion in this e-mail and that's the very first time she's done that throughout this entire period.
I have to agree with the others that she is showing more guilt than compassion. And, as long as her anger is directing her decisions.....then she is not feeling remorse. She can't be filled with anger and remorse. When a person truly feels remorse, they are humbled. Judging by the description of the email content, she is not humble. Sorry if that sounds too harsh, but even if her parents have heavily influenced her (and it sounds as if her mother has some type of unhealthy influence on her), I doubt they are fully responsible for her actions.
This is not the girl you married. Use this time apart to learn the available information on the board. She may need time to get her eyes opened and to realize what she really wants.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
