If I could've substituted your sitch to my sitch, my W said EXACTLY the same things to me. Every single point. That's why we talk here about how the WW/WAS have a 'script'. Your W fits the bill precisely. Don't believe anything she says or take her words as something serious. If she was truly sorry and remorseful, this is not how she would communicate it.
^^^This is exactly right^^^
Originally Posted By: trbuste
She is showing a lot of remorse and compassion in this e-mail and that's the very first time she's done that throughout this entire period.
Maika is spot-on, she is NOT showing remorse, not at all. She is simply showing some guilt, she feels bad for making you suffer. But make no mistake, she is still convinced that she is doing the right thing and that her actions are justified. She feels like you have wronged her for many months or years, so now you are suffering the consequences of that "inaction" on your part (I'm not saying that's fact, it's her perception).
