Nothing you do will make your W happy right now. The only emotion she can show you is anger. I know it can be hard, but you should try not to let her moods get to you. That's easier said than done, and it will take time. It's something I still struggle with in my sitch, so be sure to give yourself a pat on the back for every baby step you take.
The fog has come down hard on her and there really is nothing you can do about it. Don't try to guess what she's thinking our going through - it will only bring you down. Focus on yourself and the kids, and GAL.
You can do this!
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
