you can also hire a forensic accountant. in fact i suggest you do that immediately as he has always exhibited sneakiness around finances. you have to think of yourself and your boys.
{{{{{{{HaWho}}}}}}} I'm sorry honey.
Protect yourself and the boys.
I"m sorry that you're going through this. I agree that you're ready - far more ready than most and frankly I think you're far more ready than stbxh.
xoxoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver