Ownit - yes, your h does remind me of mine. That is just the sort of thing mine would say and then not recall it at all.

You have this Gordie. You are smart to watch the actions and not listen to the words.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced