Living in the Present, only Looking Forward

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The opposite of love is indifference.

Why should it matter if she brings OM or not? He was never the threat to the marriage - her level of commitment was.

Let go of the anger - she will need to face the consequences of her actions as she lives the rest of her life. I know, easier said than done.

The spite is just another way for saying you're still affected by her. Not detached. Be indifferent. Be respectful to the court, and to the process of law, but the end is in sight. Don't waiver.

Also, my opinion is you'll need time to process everything. Dating so soon could be a recipe for disaster - for both you and the date. Please think through and around your pain to what you want long-term. Sometimes the lonely takes us over - and we want companionship. Just keep the end goal in mind.