This is your decision, but you may want to try just living physically separated from her before leaving the country. What about your children? Are you okay living in a different country from them?
We already live separated since December. Children, are the ones I love more than anything, but I am affraid I will break here. I am sure she will find someone quite quickly. She actually openly stated she has her options, and I trust her on that. For me it will take longer and seeing her dating will just kill me.
