OMG! He is all over the darn place. The stinking odors from the dorm room have finally gotten to him.
I've never heard of reviewing an asset division before papers have been prepared, reviewed and negotiated, but I guess it depends up on where you are living. You can do all of the reviewing you want, just don't agree to anything until a lawyer has looked them over. Do not let him know that you know what you are entitled to and what your rights are. Let him spill his guts and then you will have a good idea where his head is at. Also, make sure you get your share of his retirement, any 401K Accounts, CD's, etc. You have several choices on how those funds can come to you: lump sum at the time of the divorce, over a period of time, or when he retires. You can roll the money up into an IRA for your future.
Be sure you get what your children are entitled to as well. You will need to determine who will claim the boys on their taxes this year and in future years.
Anything you brought into the marriage (prior to saying I do) is yours, as well as any gifts that were made directly to you too.
Do not allow this crazy man to bully you into signing something you aren't ready to sign.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
