I lrobably couldnhave broke her with that at the very beginning, now not.
So were you trying to break her? Be honest.
I think you'll find she has little empathy for you, now. It is much, much better for a man to show inner strength, calmness, and confidence. No begging, and no crying in front of her.....ever! If you feel close to tears, run to the bathroom and bury your head in a stack of towels, or go outside, but don't let her know you are crying over her/situation.
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But I feel I cannot be a full man here, where everything is a reminder of her.
This is your decision, but you may want to try just living physically separated from her before leaving the country. What about your children? Are you okay living in a different country from them?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
