V- The G conned you from the beginning. He is a professional con artist. I believe this is his M.O. Sadly, nor do I think you are the last victim.I hate him for doing this to such a lovely sweet lady. I hate him even more for giving you such a horrible body image. You are datable no matter what size. I hope to God yous et those fitness goals for YOU and for the love of fitness, not to obtain some body your ex felt you should have had, society feels you should have.
Do what you want to do to make you feel good, to be healthy, but not because you find yourself not up to any guys standards.
