Thank you guys.

Job, I have the list. Thank you.

I think you and all are right. I think he's going to hit replay hard this time. He is acting COMPLETELY crazy. He is badgering me to go sign that I agree to start the process and that I acknowledge his discourse of assets. He's all over me. I told him not today. He said he's going to serve me on Wednesday. He is on fire. Then after hen pecking me to death he said the lawyer called and the papers aren't even ready.

He says the papers are to acknowledge assets and start the process. Does this mean I agree to his assets? He says no. Is this just a typical first step? Do I see a lawyer even before this? He said if I don't go and sign he'll serve me and it'll embarrass me. I am in meetings all day today and just beginning with thinking about lawyers.

He is funny. He told me he is being generous giving me 50% but that is what I am legally entitied to! I already read that. And I am probably entitled to more as I was a stay at home mom for so long. Oh, and then he said he is going to let me keep my jewelry. I already saw that those are legally mine, too, as they were gifts.

And yes, he does want to use the same lawyer and he's squeezing me so hard to sign. He is on a bullet train. It is scary to watch.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced