It took me about 1.5 months just processing what had happened and about 3 months before I felt relatively normal.

Nothing will make you feel better early on. It just takes time my man. Just take care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. I spent hours on this board every day reading over sitch's and advice which really helped me get my head screwed on straight. For me, it was better than my IC.

Your doing all the right things.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018